If your Netflix and chill sessions are looking more like take out and snore before the opening credits then read on Sista, a trip to your local lingerie store may be the spark your relationship is missing. Let’s face it, in the beginning, most relationships are filled with late night talks about any and everything, wining and dining, and hot steamy sex! You and bae can’t get enough of each other and your relationship is much like Janet Jackson’s Anytime, Anyplace! But over time the balance between adulting can leave your sex life nonexistent.
So, how can lingerie help you get that old thang back?
Sexy outfits are one way to heat things up! Men respond more to visual stimulus than anything else, so seeing you in a barely their chemise or lacy teddy will have him standing at attention (quite literally). Seeing how excited he is will make you feel sexy and give you a confidence boost as well. When picking the perfect outfit to surprise him in, look for colors that look great on your skin tone and items that you feel the most confident in.
One sure fire way to botch a lusty night is hiding in the bathroom because you feel awkward and embarrassed!
Remember being sexy doesn’t have to mean naked! A floor length flowy gown or bustier might be just enough to set the mood, and if you’re really at a loss for what to purchase. Don’t be afraid to bring along a girlfriend for some shopping advice, after all, who knows you best? Specialty boutiques like Rigby and Peller offer one on one consultations with a bra fit stylist that can help you find the perfect fit and shape for your body type. They offer a range of sizes from A to K cups, so if you’re a busty girl don’t worry they’ve got you covered!
The next time you’re looking to add a little intrigue back into the bedroom start at the closet!